Thanks Dia. I'm really tired of it. H has always had these tendencies, but only since the separation has he gone full force. This is what has kept me hanging on - the fact that H "isn't normally this bad." But I'm tired of hanging on. I'm scared to move on as well. But I think you are right.
Anyone - my H says he has his version of the separation agreement finished and wants to "talk it over with me to explain the legalese." My father says under no circumstances should I sit and listen to H's translation of the agreement because it might be argued later that I agreed to something I didn't mean to .... and that I should simply hand them to my L and have the L explain them to me.
