FWIW, your W will never re-bond emotionally with you to any great degree of depth as long as she had OM in the pic. Charming may be nice, but isn't deep love better?
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
