Oh, no she freakin' didn't! She is getting me mighty angry.
S, try to remember you are dealing with an unbalanced child here. Actually, two unbalanced children.

Ok, you know you cannot trust him at all. She isnt mistreating them, right? So, I think you have to let this go a bit.

You have handled this with dignity and compassion. Dont let them get to you. Thats what they are trying to do.

Me, on the other hand, I have nothing to lose - LOL!