Instead of finding fault with her, I ask that the LBS's talk to her and give any suggestions that they might have for her to work at this MR. She already knows what all she did wrong!! She didn't come here asking that the LBH's tell her where she went wrong in her M. As one of you have said....you sure wished your W would do this.

I agree that it did not "just happen", but since I have gone through post partdom depresson and the fog of a WAW.....I recognize a woman here who is reaching out for your help, and she is so hopeless about the MR, she can't find all the right phrases to use to explain or answer the questions given. I know how hard it is to come here as a WAW. It is not a popular place to be! I also know that many men have lots of questions for a WAW b/c the LBH is trying to understand his own W. However, I'm not so sure she wants to answer all of your questions. That is not why she came here. She is the one who is desparate right now.

MTNspirit, I am not trying to attack you by responding to just your post......I am simply wanting any and all who read this thread to please give this WAW (who now has become the LBW)....a chance. You didn't get ugly, but in the past, I have seen others do it when a woman would attempt to post on the board. Some very bitter LBS would try to butcher the WAW to pieces. Needless to say, the WAW would leave and nobody knows what may have happen after that. So, I hope everyone will pull together to help.




It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!