Hi Future, things sound like they are getting more positive for you! That is great! How have you been handling your kid transitions and other interactions with your wife? If she tried small talk did you just say "thats nice" and boot her out the door or what?
As far as the legal stuff goes we seem to be in limbo right now. My lawyer talked about getting some immediate money out of my wife months ago but it never went anywhere? Everytime my w pushes to set up a mediation the lawyers rack up 1200 just talking to each other. AND to top it off my wife borrowed 5k from her wealthy father to fund HER divorce. I wonder if she told him that she is chasing a married man?
Dont get me wrong, when we are near each other we are nice to each other. I keep things short but I do it with style and confidence. I think she might be wondering what is going on with me but she has not asked ONCE where I am going or who with. Man, she is good at this game!
She does not act like she misses me one bit...and she probably does not at all. I dont miss her so much anymore either. I think I could go a year without missing her at this point.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final