But, honestly how do you ever trust someone who not only fooled you once but twice, lied, betrayed everything you ever thought was real, etc. I don't want to live the rest of my life having no peace at all because I am constantly worried he is cheating on me!! He cheated on me, his wife, now he cheated on his Ho with me, he is a cheater.
How indeed?
Broken trust is rebuilt VERY slowly or you are a fool.
If he was to ever come back you would need to forgive him...and when I say that I say that as a guy, so what I am about to say might offend some ladies...and some guys.
Not to be brought up at a later date or later fight if you say you have forgiven him. Not to be used as ammo to win an argument, none of that bull crap. Forgive and move on.
If you cannot, don't waste your time.
As for your family and friends, you better be willing to take a stand and tell them to back off on him if he does come around. Let go for you and your family not some over inflated sense of outrage they feel you should be feeling, but since you aren't they'll pick up the slack.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
