Separated--Does Not Admit to OW

[lost-n-Iowa]

Do you know the OW's H very well? Maybe if you let him know then he would be on your side through all of it.

How long have you known that there was an OW? Sounds like you have known for a little bit at least. How are you still living with your H? What are the arrangements in your house at this point? Do you and your H fight over the OW? Are you civil to him or do you accused him? IS he civil to you or an a$$? Is there no turning back in his mind and he has told you this for sure?

I am sorry to be asking so many personal questions. I am just trying to figure your sitch out a little bit more so that I and the rest of the peeps on here might be able to give you some more 'sound' advice.

Hang in there. Keep coming back to this site and posting. I have been on here for over a year. Though my H and I are not at the best that we could(and hopefully can) be, I have gotten lots of good advice and I am still married through all the stuff that has happened in my M so far. Like you, I have been dealing with my H's extra activities out side of our M. He swears he did not actually cheat on me. I still don't believe that he did not cheat but that is all in my sitch.

Keep posting. We are here for you.