I'm sure I already know the answer to this but would it be a bad idea to unemotionally let her know that if it comes to light that her decision to S is motivated by a desire to pursue a relationship with OM, then it will have consequences of some sort. I already know that OM is probably the driving reason based on her reply to my question yesterday and that it probably won't change her mind. I may be plan B right now but I want her to at least feel that plan B is not a certainty if she does this and it doesn't work out for her.
