I have a great atty.

My goal is to still be married or get remarried when she is thru this.

That's why I was asking,she is bound and determined to be free of me.

But she did have a good life.

When this divorce is final, but I've thrived, I've been nice, I've been great to my kids, I've been a better me.

If I'm patient like the 2-5yr deal, and she comes thru this, the chances are pretty good someone will realize the grass isn't greener on the otherside at some point don't they?