Treat her like a cousin. Good to be around but don't hang on her every word or try to devine her moods. The is your D's day, don't ruin it or weigh it down with great expectations.
I wish you luck. I'm in total avoidance mode.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6