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I slept with him because I wanted to


That should have been the only reason. It is the best reason.

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I have spent countless hours trying to convince him he made a bad decision


Please tell that you still do not do this crap. At all...anymore. That this was something you did at the begining...because if you were doing this during your 2 years of DBing then you certainly weren't DBing. Please tell us that you still don't do this.

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I just plan to leave him alone, leave her alone, and keep doing GAL


That is a good plan.
You WILL have to talk to him because of children, that is your opportunity to SHOW him that you have changed. Just...don't
f-ing nag him about bad choices. Or scream or fight...pretty sure that is the old you he is used to.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet