My W is spending time with me and my D on Monday coming between 10am and 7pm (not sure how the OM is tolerating her spending all day with us unless he went back home - that was a wonder rather than me caring).
Can anybody give me some tips to handle this? I always ask her about how work has been and she usually chats away with me about it and I always thought that was a good way for us to communicate. However I am thinking, since I am trying to go as dark as I can, with the exception of communicating and spending time with my D, that maybe I should just keep things as basic as possible and I won't discuss that with her?
My other concern is my mood. I've been reading the DR book and it suggests being happy but not too overly happy.
Basically, can you guys give me any hints, tips and advice how to handle Monday?
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
