FIB..I'm happy for K, things are looking up, lets not "piss on her strawberries" as we say in the UK. Noone said it wasnt going to be hard time ahead. But allowing yourself to love someone carries risks, just like surgery does, to use your analogy. To open yourself up, let someone into your soul (again) you risk getting hurt, but if you dont take that risk.. you wont get to experience the joy of love either. There are no gaurantees EVER. At some point, you just have to sign the consent form and let yourself be cut open and trust that its gonna be ok and you wont wake up with with your nuts missing instead of your appendix.

K you're not crazy! (ok a little, lol, but so am I..).would they do it a video conference with you instead? Or..how about just getting him to read the book with you..snuggled up in bed?? Its certainly cheaper wink

Oh I told bf the news (he thought it was great) and that you were concerned she might still get a hold on him, or cause trouble.. and bf said NO WAY. I dont think so...I think he's definetly done with her.

Just a male WAS's perspective, if that helps.