WAS seeing reality?

[v1olin]

I have come to a point in this sitch that I want to have zero interaction with my wife for a while. Does anyone have any tips on doing this when kids are involved?


Right now I pick up the kids every night and have them at their moms house when wife gets home. I want to leave early but then I feel like my kids are getting screwed over. I am thinking about taking my kids to my apartment every night but then I will have to provide food for them. Money is VERY tight.



As far as dropping the rope goes... I think I am doing pretty well. I told her to take my name off of the utilities at the house and she seemed suprised. She asked, "why? Am I in trouble or something?" I thought that was a funny response.


I told her one night before I left that we needed to talk. That was the same thing that she told me pre-bomb. The look on her face was priceless but also very sad to see. She asked if I wanted her to call me and I said "no, I am going to eat dinner and then I will call you." You guessed it, she called me 15 minutes later while I was eating. I had to ignore it. I called her about an hour later and I told her that my reason for the talk was that I would be moving some furiture out of the house and into my apartment. She seemed so releived that she kept asking me what else I needed or wanted from the house. I then asked her when are we going to mediation and she told me that her lawyer requested some dates in october but my lawyer has not responded yet. So I guess that is not happening this month. At this rate we will still be married at Christmas!