Seduction is an interesting interaction to study. All your changes will be seductive to W. Become the best man you can. Make yourself the best option. BUT DO IT FOR YOU AND NOT HER. Make the process fun. Forgive W. I am continually forgiving W and I grow each time I do so. Compassion is a very important skill to learn. She is hurting just as bad as you. She is confused right now. She will lash out to hurt you. DO NOT LASH BACK.

I wish you well. Remember that everything will be OK no matter what she chooses. I chose the high road and am thankful that I did. NO REGRETS.

I am leaving work now. Enjoy your weekend (THAT IS A CHOICE YOU CAN MAKE).


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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