By e-mailing him, he now knows what you are thinking(as if he didn't already). He is going to paint you as a bad mother causing all these problems for your kids. He of course will be mr wonderful if not mr misunderstood. BARF
Of course he is going to lie. But I don't see how he can hide the fact that he forced you guys to lose your home and have your car repossed. And both of those things happened without him losing his job! Plus if they look at his financials, they should see all the trips he was taking with skank. I hope your L is good enough to drill these points home as well as how little time he has spent with the kids until it looked as if he might benefit finacially.
Hang in there. kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory