Hey all, thanks for the thoughts. I am not discounting Puppy's thoughts and observations. It may very well be true, my concern is that I don't know what to do to find out without being busted for snooping, which I imagine would be detramental to repairing my marriage. Incidentially, I was laid off in May. My credit and finances are so shot she could only get a pre paid cell if she wanted another phone...unless OM bought it. How would I even find this out without being suspect? I appreciate you're experiences, I don't have any in this area, and I am very torn...but not blind to unpleasant possibilities either. Thanks.
