Originally Posted By: tristan

I think that is the right attitude. Maybe you should try to find some single friends that you can hang out with on the weekends. Single people would be more available and it would give her something to think about. She does seem pretty comfortable with the status quo.


She does seem pretty comfortable. She's had all of the power. I hate that it comes to that, but that's a pretty accurate description.

I still say there's a lot of MLC type stuff with her. She says she loves me and will miss me. She has the ability to be affectionate with me. She doesn't want to leave her home or put our son through this. She just says this is something she has to do. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

Hanging out with single people? There's a thought. Just not telling her who I am with at all is another wink


Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.