I offered that more for people who still have an open mind than to the two of you, who don't seem to want to hear it.
But OK. Good luck.
You seem to be the one without an open mind. You only have one conclusion to everyone's marriage problems.
Where I observe symptoms, I usually offer a prudent prescription, yes -- guilty.
I make no personal judgments -- I merely point out caution when I see certain patterns, words, behavior, etc., that would indicate a very high chance of infidelity. And I do so for specific reasons, which I've stated umpteen times on this site and won't get into again here. They are ALL for the poster's protection; I get nothing out of it, and I detest affairs so much that NOTHING would make me happier than to be wrong, believe me.
I will tell you that in several years on the board and well over 10,000 posts, I've only been wrong once that I know of.
Still, I don't want to be a source of pain or distraction to you, so I will bid you peace. If you'll go back and check my very first post to you, "infidelity" was NOT the main thing I was trying to get you to consider.
