Hi Kittyfish, thanks for your insight on this. I checked cell phone records last night, and I didnt see any glaring recurring calls or repeated long conversations to any one number, many of which I recognize. Are you recommending calling any attorney because you don't believe thier is any hope? I have to tell you that I am not ready to throw in the towel, you know?
I checked my wife's cell phone as well and found nothing unusual. I am not so concerned about a current affair but her possibly having an affair now that our marriage is struggling.
Do each of your wives know that you have access to their cellphone/cellphone records? In my experience, there is a "secret affair cellphone" in about 25-30% of the cases.
Then again, you don't want to hear that, so . . .
Puppy
Puppy I am sorry if you had a problem with an affair but that does not mean everyone else does. Why not focus on helping others instead of CONSTANTLY harping that it MUST be an affair.