Hi Kittyfish, thanks for your insight on this. I checked cell phone records last night, and I didnt see any glaring recurring calls or repeated long conversations to any one number, many of which I recognize. Are you recommending calling any attorney because you don't believe thier is any hope? I have to tell you that I am not ready to throw in the towel, you know?
I checked my wife's cell phone as well and found nothing unusual. I am not so concerned about a current affair but her possibly having an affair now that our marriage is struggling.
Here is what my wife told me the other day in an email when I asked if there was another man:
I don’t have the time or patience to want or need someone else. I want to love myself, that’s all. I can’t give you what you need for a timeline. I can’t make any promises. That’s not fair to you or me. I’m not doing anything but working on myself right now. This is not all about you. It is about ME. There is no one else, no need for any of that. This is MY time. I am doing what I want when I want and how I want.