She doesn't love me anymore...or does she?

[Ready2Change]

... feeling very afraid of losing W....

Face your fears my friend. This fear is what actually creates this in your life. Your fear affects your behavior. Eliminate the fear and accept things for how they are. You have not lost your wife, but if you fear loosing her, you WILL.

Changing your belief system takes work. All the 180's are key to this. Are you controlling, then stop controlling. Are you passive, then be aggressive. Are you a slob, become neat. etc...