I feel for you. If you look at my sitch in my signature link you'll see I'm in a similar but probably much more escalated version of what you are going through. It is truly the most difficult time in my life. My wife is just getting colder and more hostile and is now moving out in the next couple of days. I really hope you can resolve this. I sure hope I can get my family back together. I would really back off though. It is somthing I'm having a hard time doing, but that is the advice you probably need to heed the most.
Me: 30 W: 29 D: 20 months M: 5 years T: 6.5 years ILYBNILWY and want to separate: 10/5/2009