...I am clearly BAD at understanding remotely what my W is feeling
Good place to work on YOU. I can read most people very well right now.
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and what to do.
Take your focus OFF W and put it on YOU. Both people need to go through this without each other. Get support from other people. Practice new skills behavior with other people. Have fun with other people.
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