If you make this stand, I say via your worthless L,it will help create a boundary. It will let him know that you are not messing around and that you are done with him pushing all the time. Will he try other means? Perhaps, but Karen if you let him continually take from you, you will eventually have nothing left.
Draw your line in the sand.
Hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory