Thanks Jack,

I'll point out her behavior tonight. If she decides not to come to bed until the AM - I don't think I'll hit her with the pillow smile , but If I'm awake enough I'll tell her to find he own pillow.

Hi Trapt - I debated on the idea of going out by myself. I wanted to go out for drinks with her as an opportunity for ther to talk about things. Her work, friends our D11, but not our R.

Thanks for the advice.

Fixer