Thanks for all the opinions on this. W already noticed that I changed my password for our online banking & she asked me about it this morning. I deflected her question . . .
Etrain,
Do you remember when I told you this?
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Once you've made all the financial moves, I suggest you calmly tell your wife. You don't want to appear to be "keeping secrets" like she is, and it's The Right Thing to Do.
Are there some other moves you still need to make today or something? If not, why are you avoiding telling her? I wanted you to do this PROACTIVELY, from a calm position of confidence that you were DOING THE RIGHT THING.
