All of the responses I am getting are saying that my wife is having an affair. I will admit that I don't know what goes on when I'm not here, but the discussion that I had with my wife when she told me she doesnt love me would have been perfect time for her to be honest, as I ask her if there was an OM. I'm not feeling like I'm being naive, just that I feel like I know my wife....now that sounds naive huh?
I appreciate the help and input from everyone here, but I am struggling when and where to apply the different recommendations. UGH! I feel like I can look my W in the eye an tell that she's being truthful, but this whole situation is so mind boggling I can't even put it into words!
You and I are in very very similar situations. The only difference is we are not going to MC yet.
My wife also told me she is not in love anymore and needs more time, space and independence. We are still living in the same house but sleeping in different rooms. She doesn't want me calling her and emailing her so much anymore, etc etc
I asked my wife if there was OM and she told me no. I believe her and just don't see the need to damage the trust we have built between us by spying on her or anything.
I too was frustrated on this board because there are one or two folks who keep insisting my wife is having an affair. I just don't understand why some jump right to that conclusion everytime.
