I did it for 2 years and he never left her and came home.
Was 2 years all you had in you?
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I moved away
Sweetie, consider you ears boxed. You took your kids away from their Dad and now you want him to move there and be a Dad. Not a good move.
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but more so to give my kids their Dad back, that is first and foremost.
Then move back. I get wanting to get "away" from the mess. Thing is, you've got kids. They need him.
I hear all the hurt, anger and confusion. Did you think that by sleeping with him and the momentary connection it would all magically go back to the way it was?
I think you have alot of work to do on you. Do not e-mail her H and stay out of their stuff. It won't help you.
You sound like you want revenge. If that's the case, he souldn't want to come back. He'll just be punished indefinately.
That you slept with him isn't in and of itself bad IMO. You need to understand why you did.
