I usually 100% agree with y'all. And I did just send the email, with a copy to my L. I don't think he will change though when he sees his behavior in the last month typed up in email. He is abusive, and has been for the past 3 years. Do you think he can't see or realize that he's abusive to me?
I am going to start spending the rest of the time until Dec. 7th working on the divorce. I think it's going to be very ugly sadly. I don't think much I do can change that either....