THAT is what I would do exactly. Leave him alone and her. Just like someone said, IF you want him back, then you need to be the better person and better alternative to OW. IF you were to tell her that you guys slept together, or let it "slip" to someone like her XH where it would then get to her, then you look vengeful and hurtful just like HER. IF you did something that broke them up, yes you would feel good for a minute. BUT that would give him one more thing that is messed up in his life to blame on YOU. That minute would be short lived. BE THE BETTER PERSON.
Last edited by SoConfused; 10/16/0904:52 PM.
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