Ever get the sense that some folks aren't reading ALL of your posts, Tal???
sorry there's just so many darn people posting so much in piecing now that I don't have the time to read everything and when I try to just read the thread persons posts I can miss one! so
prime example of how much posting is going on here..I posted on my own thread not more than an hour ago and it's now heading to the bottom of pg 2!!
Quote: The traffic around here has at least quadrupled since we came over, wouldn't you say??
at least...I remember when I first came over here it was just a few folks and the only way to get to the second page was to not post for a month and even then you still stood a chance at bieng at the bottom of the first page.
well here we go filling up talista's thread with chit chat...sorry tal...and I do try to read up on ya'll just so hard to keep up with all the many folks round here and with all the others posting I don't always find something new and insightful to say so I don't.
I know what you mean--I feel like I can barely keep up. If you miss a few days, it's hard to catch up and sometimes I find myself getting people's story's mixed up.
Shiny: I agree about the jump-start thing. I feel like I have made super-human efforts not to go off the deep end, i.e. do some real damage, but I don't think I can take to many more of these "slaps in the face"!
Sometimes I wonder if Butt Ugly has just gone on her dizzy little way or has gone on to other married guys. So far, she's been dumped 4 times for trying. With a path of destruction like that behind her--she's got some very bad mojo coming her way.
I'm finally getting to the point where I no longer feel compelled to be the one that actually rips her apart. Like I told Wolfie--I've got nothing to say to her, she's a maggot that lower than the dirt on my shoe--and definately not worth my time.
Come to think of it--if he WERE still carrying on with her, or had any thought of every risking his R with me by continuing ANYTHING with her...well I'd not only think he was whacked, but pathetic and not worth my time either...not to mention having bigger problems than any C could help with!
Well, I'll probably get locked out here soon, so time to start thinking about a new thread.
I still don't have an answer about the cell phone bill. Could be I never will and will have to live with that.
I've been trying to remember the way Wolfie was acting back when I know for sure the A was ongoing that is very different from now. Kindof a positives list in reverse--he was doing this or that--but now he isn't. I think that may help me to get some of this confusion out of the way. I honest believe that if the A were still ongoing--he'd be acting like he did then. Truth be told--he's not THAT complicted and while he can manipulate--it would be beyond him to act the way he does now while keeping an A going on.
So I guess I'll start a new thread--Before and After/Extreme Makeover.
Quote: I've been trying to remember the way Wolfie was acting back when I know for sure the A was ongoing that is very different from now. Kindof a positives list in reverse--he was doing this or that--but now he isn't. I think that may help me to get some of this confusion out of the way. I honest believe that if the A were still ongoing--he'd be acting like he did then. Truth be told--he's not THAT complicted and while he can manipulate--it would be beyond him to act the way he does now while keeping an A going on.
excellent!! and as you stated in a prior post (see I do read them) if he is or does contiue with ow or a new ow...the spirits will start sending him bad mojo!
I like your new thread name idea and I just can't tell you how happy it makes me to read how the talk on the cell phone went and the progress you guys are making!
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
Hey Tal, Your last post is exactly how I feel. My sitch is almost to the T like yours. I'm having a real rough time trusting, but he is not acting now like he was when he was in the A. Still...that does not mean he's not talking to her. All I have to go on is his word and that has not been good in the past. I want to stop feeling like this-I want for the stuff that makes me doubt to stop happening. My H is not quite as accomodating as yours when it comes to the reassurance. He's getting frustrated at all my suspicions. I have been talking to him about them alot lately, but after what I've been through I'd think he would do whatever it took to help me be reassured he's not lieing again. Do we just forget it and go on? What if we can't forget it? I guess we have to look at their actions too. My H like yours is acting like he wants our M to work. He is telling me he loves me and is showing me with his actions as well. Still.....he has not said he wants to come home yet. I don't pressure him about that at all. Our son is not ready for him to come home. He does not want to go through it all again-him coming home then leaving again. I can't blame him. Tal, how do you plan to get past your suspicions? Do you feel the need to know for sure if he is telling the truth this time? I'm really struggling with this. I posted in detail on my thread-RMC. You seem to really be working through this well, but I know how doubt creeps in and makes you crazy. I really hate this....... Rachael
I've been trying to remember the way Wolfie was acting back when I know for sure the A was ongoing that is very different from now. Kindof a positives list in reverse--he was doing this or that--but now he isn't. I think that may help me to get some of this confusion out of the way. I honest believe that if the A were still ongoing--he'd be acting like he did then. Truth be told--he's not THAT complicted and while he can manipulate--it would be beyond him to act the way he does now while keeping an A going on.
there's just so many darn people posting so much in piecing now that I don't have the time to read everything and when I try to just read the thread persons posts I can miss one! so 
