I think you're basically making a boundary...so in that case.
If you don't back it up...I'll just call you Mr. Fix the puff ball. : )
You have to address it if it is a boundary.
As for the pillow? [censored] man why didn't you rip it bac and let her eat a mouthful of feathers? You want the pillow? You want the PILLOW?!!??! You can't handle the PILLOW! (whack her with the pillow)
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