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I think any fantasies I'd have in this regard are just fantasies


I too used to have 'happy ending' dreams. They used to comfort me but now they give me nightmares. For me I've decided that someone who has treated his own family in the way my XH has treated me and our 3 children has gone way past the possibility of any second chance.

I've definately changed and I really don't think XH would like the new me as he wouldn't be able to control me.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15