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[awest1217]

I live right by Notre Dame in Mishawaka, but I am looking forward to a good weekend. I read something interesting this morning how in a marriage it is very important for a woman to be gentle, loving, receptive, soft, etc. and a man to be more harsh. It is funny because OW always lets H do everything for her, but I have never been that way. H came home saying he wanted things the way they were before he left, but I think I need to act more feminine and show that I do need him even if I can handle it on my own, I would rather not. H has to become the man in our relationship and I think that will help him stop the OW thing. At least somethign for me to think about.

Clinging- kind of goes along with your last post. W liked to take care of you because that is a feminine trait and not allowing it hurt the feminine side.