Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
JTJ,

Your post about the cycle is a very good one. But, with all due respect, I have to disagree about this:

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Thinker you are getting alot of bad advice about getting a lawyer and wondering what she is going to do next and what about this and what about that.


Going to speak with an attorney and being educated about and prepared for what may come down the pike is not a bad thing. It doesn't mean you have to file for D.

I agree the LBS should not wonder what the WAS will do next or wonder why the LBS does/thinks something. But, being prepared for all of the potential twists and turns is not a bad thing.


He does need to talk to a lawyer But he needs to do it outside the cycle of the Worry---Fear---anger----Control. If not he is doing more of the same and will not change and use it to justify his feelings. Thinker you need to evaluate your own true feelings and detach from why others are making you feel that way.

Thinker work on you. Take control of your own life and Let go of your wifes. Thats all brother.


H:37
W:34
D11,S8,S6
Together 19 years
M:10
Bomb:4/09