Let her go... What that means is that YOU initiate the separation and the divorce process. It is THEN that she may start to believe that you are done. It is THEN that the pressure is off of her to "feel" what YOU want her to feel and act the way YOU want her to act.
It won't happen UNTIL you let go...
Gucci thanks. I think I need to do the same in my situation. I need to find out if their is an affair. But this is exactly what I need to do. Let my wife be free to live as she thinks she wants to live and not how I think she wants to live.
JJ
H:37 W:34 D11,S8,S6 Together 19 years M:10 Bomb:4/09