Oh, sure, take the easy way out. Invoke the Mantra, the default position, the Divorce-Busting null hypothesis: "Towards a renewed and deepened relationship with my Beloved."
FWIW, I wasn't. I was walking toward an unknown chapter in my future. It could have been a chapter of independence as a single mother with a new job living near my H for the sake of the kidlet. I had an apartment here all lined up and a lease ready to sign. Or it could be what I have now, a new chapter in reconciliation with my husband.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137
