Hey Julia, thanx for the compliment. That was something I figured out long ago. I could either live, learn & try to understand the mistakes I made or kick myself down forever for them.

My other type of "motto" that I threw out the window when my xh left was: I don't want someone who doesn't want me. (If my partner is unhappy & doesn't want to be with me, then I don't want them. And they are Free to leave). Maybe I should have stuck to that one - eh?

Last Tue. was my M anniversary. Strange how it still sticks in my head. The only day that was a happy date was that day.

I'm doing well - thanx for asking. I've gotten off the rollercoater, quite a while ago, actually. Life is good and I'm happy. Gotta spend my weekend cleaning this pig pen of a house up! smile


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)