Thanks so much Sandy, I really appreciate the time you spend giving me advice. As moving day approaches, I Am sure that I will have a lot of questions about your last post. I did want to mention that W came to me this morning and said that talking has helped her out and see things more clearly. She said that she wants us to come together and have these type of talks during S. She also told me that she feels a lot more positive about us. I recognize the possibility that maybe she is just making sure the rope is tied tight to me before she leaves, but my optomistic side sees that this could also be a positive step for her.
What is your take on this? I want to do the right DB thing but I don't want to sabotage positive steps.