Yes, it probably is a test. But not to be vengeful. To test how you feel about your R, about your H. And, from the looks of things, you, your R, your H, your M are coming through with flying colors! I always ask myself, okay, what should I be learning here? And you are learning trust for your H, and that goes a long ways toward rebuilding your M. Laurie told me that the better things get, the more you will be tested. I do believe in satan, and he does not want your marriage to be restored... so, when all of this crap is thrown at you, and you overcome it, know that it is one more step toward a wonderful, fulfilling M with your Wolfie.


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.