Arwen..you are so right. My H and I have this great great friendship or did....we still do, he is just very bitter towards me. He blames me for everything right now. He went back to sleeping in our basement for some reason this week but I guess I just need to stop analyzing and do something. I blame myself for everything..the alleged A, his feelings toward me now. I am running in circles trying to make myself as attractive as I can be but does he care..NO! Does he even notice? Does it fill the void? NO WAY! The fact that he stopped saying ILY..part of that I think has to do with the fact that I do not say it...but who knows..took off his wedding ring and sleeps in the basement SUCKS! I dont want to deal with this anymore. I am losing my patience and nothing seems to be working. All the db on the planet..except for the fact that when he left last sat..he came back..he came back because he knew that I did not care if he left...and the next night he apologized for leaving... So..instead of kicking him out..what do I do to really get his attention?? To say..I dont want to lose her and I better shape up!
