I'm not certain about the e-mail after this new development. I DO know that if the D becomes final I feel like walking away and closing that part of my heart to H, so if I don't communicate this to him am I any better than a WAH who didn't tell ME he was unhappy before he left?
I had previous plans to socialize this saturday evening with the source who gave me this info. I may get more info then. I also need to REALLY think about LISTENING when I have lunch with H's sister, to see what info she might give me (if I don't talk too much).