... but I do go along with what has already been said here. Don't try to read anything more into it. (Just before the weekend, you made nearly the same comment to me about finding the gold pocketwatch with OM's initials on it.)
I use the knowledge I've learned to fortify my resolve to keep working on being the best me I can be. Started dancing in the minefield. That includes giving CAW the benefit of doubt and believing that in time she will come around full circle and discover that what she has in M is not worth losing by remaining in contact with OM.
... and if while dancing a mine goes off and blows the M apart ... then so be it ... I'll continue to dance right into the next life ... whatever that may become.
Try to give Wolfie the benefit of the doubt for now. Jeaninne is right. phone contact does not mean infidelity and as strange as it may sound, he may be lying as a means of wanting to protect you from anymore hurt, knowing that the phone calls are not going to lead to anything else with OW. This not all that uncommon and I've read it here a few times myself.
Earlier this summer, CAW kept saying to me, "we're all being tested". I find myself agreeing with that and no matter what the outcome, I'm focusing on making sure I'm doing the best I can in how I'm being tested and making sure I can live with the choices I make.
