I'm still put off by the statement from the therapist that if you feel like a victim, then you will react with violence. What about her? She feels like the victim, doesn't that put you in danger from her potential violence? Can only men act violently?
Your home has turned into a powder keg. I don't understand how that happened. What needs to happen is that both of you need to turn down the emotional thermostat. Can you two call a truce?
