(((((((((((TAL))))))))))))) So sorry that you found that bill. You know what they say-what we don't know doesn't hurt us--and this was through September--he didn't move in until after that and perhaps his delay in moving was simply to give this up completely before coming back home. PMA and be calm when you discuss (not accuse) H with this topic. You deserve to have answers, but just try not to put him on the defense! Take Care!! You are still on the road to recovery--just a little speed bump!