I just said that I'm trying to do what I think is right and you are trying to walk all over me and I don't want to support it. Man, it was so hard. Needless to say she stormed out of the house and took off and the conversation ended right there after she said fine, I'm taking D2 and we're going and we're not paying you sh*t for the mortgage or anything. Your never here anyway and I can't believe you. Slammed the door and took off. I stupidly tried to call her a couple minutes later in the heat of the moment but she didn't answer which is probably a good thing.
You did the right thing. You are the man of the house and if you left, you could be seen as deserting your family in some courts. I know you are feeling terrible right now, but it is all very typical and she will settle down. She didn't get things like she wanted so she ticked. Don't do anything to enable her move. If she wants it....let her get it. Trying to call her right after she left...yes it was a stupid move. Don't do that anymore. That is same as kissing a$$ when she gets mad. She knew when she saw your number. Remember, you have to keep cool and collected. You are the man and must use your leadship, strength, and all that other stuff God gave you......(I am so sleepy I can't think clearly. Been on this board for 7 hours straight after I got home from work. So better get to bed.) I will check back later.
Don't talk to her anymore tonight. Let it be.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
