Hey native, Wow - how very strange as I was posting to you - you were posting to me - do do do do.
Yes, I know the oldies. Totally agree with your statement. And I know a lot of what my xh said when he left was a bunch of BS, because it all was quite fixable with simple communication & willingness to change. Yet, neither one of us found the correct tools we needed at the moment.
Live & learn - or spend the rest of your life kicking yourself down for the mistakes you made. That is definately, your own choice.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
