Dia and GIMA,

Thanks for stopping by! I'm REALLY impressed at what great advice folks here give so please feel free to offer some. I'm open to suggestions. I'm losing my patience with H (not sure if this is just me protecting myself because of Dday coming up or frustration pure and simple). This may be just a phase for me. I don't know.

Based on the timing of this it would appear that my birthday "date" with H was right around the time he started dating OW #2. It almost feels as though there are forces in the universe at work in this situation, but H just doesn't want to take the hint (kinda like a WAHinator) so the universe just keeps beating him down????? I pray for him every day.

GAG