You are so right, CTH. I lose sight of the person my W is sometimes. I sent an e-card apologizing. That was a real blunder on my part and deserved more than just a plain apology. I don't think it will matter. Talk about a set back.

~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)